In the winter of 1983, three women — a nurse, a public defender, and a Sunday school teacher — turned a parsonage attic into a place where survivors could sleep with the door locked. They paid the heating bill out of pocket. They bought groceries with their own money. They answered a single rotary phone in shifts, and when it rang at 2 a.m., one of them got out of bed.
The women they sheltered had been told, repeatedly, that what was happening to them was their fault. That they were imagining it. That if they just behaved differently, the man would calm down. We knew none of that was true, and we said so out loud, sometimes for the first time anyone had.
Forty-one years later, we run a confidential 28-bed shelter, eighteen transitional apartments, three counseling tracks, a children's program, a legal advocacy team, an outreach school program, and a thrift store that funds it all. We employ thirty-eight staff. We're licensed by the state.
But the work is still about that same moment — the one in the parsonage attic where someone who had been disbelieved her whole life was finally, plainly, believed.